"What's it like to have real friends?"
I was the clueless home-schooled kid.
Mixing space-print leggings with a lace-trimmed polka-dot skirt wasn’t my biggest problem: People terrified me. I was the stringy-haired kid who wasn’t allowed to watch Disney movies, Power Rangers, or even Care Bears (seriously?!).
What the hell do I say?
What will people think of me?
What if everyone hates me?
Even if your specific experience is different, you know what it’s like to feel alone. To be awkward in new situations. To worry what your crush thinks of you whenever you open your mouth. You still have that embarrassing middle-school memory that burns you with shame. You’re scared of rejection, nervous about conflict, and you long to be truly seen and understood.
Maybe you feel invisible… and keep getting caught up in fantasies of the life you wish you could have, if only someone would notice the real you.
Maybe you feel like an alien spy trying to figure out what this ridiculous “human” thing is supposed to be about.
Maybe you’re so afraid of having too many feelings that you try not to feel anything at all—and end up pushing away the people you care about most.
Whatever it is, you want connection. REAL intimacy with partners, family, and friends.
You’re longing for the magic of joyful, compassionate love in all areas of your life.
Learn the simple 3-step process for a lifetime of healthy vulnerability—and relationships built to last.
See yourself.
Support yourself.
Share yourself authentically.
It's REALLY that simple. With these 3 steps, you discover how to...
- bring your real self face-to-face with the people you care about
- have the conversations that make you feel seasick
- invite real connection anytime, anywhere
You won't just have more love in your life—you'll know how to FEEL and experience it fully. You'll be confident when it comes to conflict, and bring compassionate presence to the trickiest circumstances.
And you'll be shocked when intimacy actually starts to feel easy.
You were MEANT to love and be loved... and these tools will connect you with the joy and ease that you're meant to embody.
Self
You get to BE YOU. More of yourself means more peace, presence, and joy. Your creativity blossoms. You feel like a kid again—playful, open, and endlessly curious!
Romance + Sex
Honeymoon period, anyone? You see the world through new eyes, and remember why you fell in love with love in the first place. As you invite your partner into wild intimacy, you open up to all the possibility of your relationship.
Friends
You know what you want, and you ask for it. You're the person who shows up when it matters, AND you bring your silly, expressive self out to play. Your friendships are deeper + more expansive than ever.
Work
You easily develop leadership skills by combining healthy vulnerability with healthy boundaries. You're more focused, you ground yourself in gratitude, and you're connected with your greatest passions.
Family
You're deeply resourced and supported. You release resentment, and evolve continuously. You anchor yourself in habits that build real connection, relax tension, and make love abundantly available.
Community
Your relationship magic spills into every interaction you have! Synchronicity invites your loved ones to connect with each other, and you're more available to collaboration and communal joy.
“True vulnerability requires that we tune inward and ask ourselves why we are sharing, whether it’s safe to share, and what we hope to get from sharing.”
—Lisa Oliveira, "Already Enough"
Monthly Membership
or Lifetime Access
You can join Vibrant Vulnerability for a season of life—or commit to a lifetime of lovetastic support. With weekly group coaching and the VV community group, you'll have companions and guides at every step.
Best of all, pricing is based on a sliding scale with guidelines to help you pinpoint how much to pay.
Monthly membership is between $100-$200 per month. Membership includes:
- Vibrant Vulnerability course with pre-recorded lessons
- Resources and practices for healthy vulnerability
- 3 live group calls every month + recordings of past calls
- Community group
- Full library of self-paced courses
Lifetime access additionally includes 12 one-on-one, 30-minute coaching calls, and 15% off retreats and other offerings! It's priced between $4,000-$10,000. Payment plans are available.
Supported:
Under-resourced rate
The supported rate is intended for those experiencing financial hardship, as well as those who experience social oppression or marginalization—such as those who are LGBTQIA+; live with chronic illness, mental or physical disability; Black, Indigenous, or affected by racism; immigrants or refugees; and anyone else who requires a reduced rate to access this space.
Standard:
Resourced rate
The standard rate is intended for those experiencing financial security—stable housing, consistent income, access to food and medical care, and other essentials. You have some discretionary income and may have some debt, but do not experience ongoing financial hardship.
Supporting:
Well-resourced rate
The supporting rate is intended for those experiencing financial prosperity—which may include property ownership; intergenerational support; lack of student debt; consistent discretionary income; personal savings, investments and other assets; access to significant credit; financial advisors and mentors; or other resources that contribute to a well-resourced life.
All About Nat
I'm a queer, genderfluid creative who's been questioning the world as long as I've been alive. I found home and healing as a writer, studying playwriting and working in theater. I adore dogs and cats, and when I'm not coaching, I'm probably cuddling. (Okay, sometimes I do both at the same time!)
I've trained in parts work, the Enneagram, and somatic support. My vision is a world where EVERY human being is loved for EXACTLY who they are.
